10 Ways To Radiate Positivity And Be Attractive
There’s negative and there’s positive vibes. Criticism sends out negative vibes. So do complaints, disagreement, blame and frowns. Offering thanks, gratitude and appreciation, along with interest in others’ lives and warm smiles, send forth positive vibes.
Folks who emanate positive vibes are upbeat to talk with. They feel “warm.” Whether they are your boss, your employee or colleague, your friend, family members or loved ones; these folks feel safe to share with, and, like sunshine, radiate good feelings. Their positivity makes you want to talk with them more because they’ve set good vibes as a relationship standard.
Positive leaders consistently avoid being critical, negating what you say, being argumentative or responding dismissively to what you say. Those negative energy habits are what negative folks do.
Interacting with negative folks or being in a group that they lead induces downer feelings, makes others feel insecure and can become downright unpleasant.
Positive individuals and leaders, by contrast, convey interest in your perspectives and well-being, agreement, appreciation, humor and affection.
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